Adjustments!!

This Society here, Adjust drunkards, who  creates horror in their home!

But this society cannot adjust a women drinking alcohol in public, she is tagged uncultured!

This society adjust a lot of rapists at home ,at school and in public!

They remain silent and even help them live a happy life!

And the same society here cannot adjust love marriages  & inter caste weddings!

If found,they are harassed and  murdered on the spot!

This society can adjust with the idea of dowry, although illegal

But still cant adjust with a women who decides to marry late!

This society can adjust breaking through traffic signals and rash driving,

But this society cannot adjust women driving late at night!

This society can adjust with farmers suicide every now and then,

But this society cannot adjust males helping  in the house hold chores!

This society can adjust eating chemicals in their veggies,

But cannot adjust a neighbour eating meat as per his wish!

This Society can adjust  self styled God-mans doing shits!

But cannot adjust a man growing his hair and beard in his fashion!

This Society Adjusts a hell lot of illegal violent and inhuman activities,

And this society cannot adjust with equality and true love!

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“What you DON’T want to do in Life” Matters!

I happened to end up here thinking a lot over my confusions about my own future,What to do next in Life?( lets call it WTDNIL) I have had this discussion with myself many times before. But today as I was thinking a good thought just lighted up!Its not an ultimate solution to my problem, but do help in some ways! Trying to share the same here:-)

When it comes to looking for a job,There are different kinds of people in this world,My classification for the time being:

1.People who have a clear idea about what they want to do in life (Like few of my friends in Engineering college who waited for Core company Jobs after graduation/Or who went abroad for doing Masters…I use to wonder how do they have this clear idea!Some think for themselves and some are forced to act out their well wisher’s clear plan..Anyway in both these cases they are escaped from “WTDNIL” problem

2.People who like to do anything or something that comes their way!( Not much affected by WTDNIL problem, as they accept more)

3.People who are interested in many areas but confused! (Or people who are simply confused!!-makes more sense).

Alright.

2nd category,That’s where I stood after my Engineering graduation, I didn’t wait too much or tried hard to get in to a company where I could apply the signal processing or Antenna theories instead I jumped into an IT company when it came my way.  Now once you get into role you can either stay there for a long or withdraw if you feel like its no more your cup of tea. I joined the IT firm,enjoyed working there, had lot of friends and all the happiness of the first job and ‘being away from home’. But 2 years down the line working for 9 hrs staring at the system seems less excited for me. I planned to move and joined for MBA! And now the 3rd category of the list is in scene.This is where I am right now, I’m in the last semester of my MBA course.So after few months I will be stuck with the “WTDNIL” problem again. This time the story is different, I am interested in multiple things and don’t know in which area I need to focus for a job. To the core I am a peoples person, HRM is my love! But at the same time Market Research excites me a lot and so does Marketing, the real fun of business lies there. And after the business analytics class, i am forced to think much about it, Its the future of business and I want to dig in! Apart from these CSR has always been my thing and I want to be sustainability leader someday. In between I also feel that I want to get into public administration although its very difficult!

The problem is I am not good  at any of these and I don’t know which one to focus!I still don’t know what exactly I want to do in my life!! But one thing that I figured out to tackle this situation is knowing exactly “What I don’t want to do in my life”.

Now that seems to be an easier task. I tried to fix those things that I don’t want to do .That’s a better feeling! Few things in my list goes like this:-Not to work abroad-Not to do monotonous job-Not to stick to the office work alone-Not to save more money-Not to be a consumerist etc. That doesn’t exactly solves the problem, but takes out few confusions! I don’t have to give attention to ‘work abroad’ jobs. I don’t have to get in to a post  just because it offers high salary!

I think Understanding  what we  DONT WANT TO DO in our life is as equally important as knowing what to do in life! It helps to shield our thoughts, make us more focused about what we really want to do!

The WTDNIL problem affect us while choosing a  carrier path,in some stages of relationships, business,social life  and many other areas! And the idea of understanding  “What you don’t want to do in life” really helps in solving the WTDNL problems to an extend in many cases!

Concluding with a beautiful thing that my friend told.” I have no idea about whom I have to marry, when I want to get married or whether I have to get married or not. But I am pretty much sure that I DON’T WANT TO get married until I fulfill few of my “TO DO LIST” in life”.And I think the last part mattered most for her!

“Knowing what you really DON’T WANT TO DO” is a blessing! So next time when you sit down to think “What I want to do now”  and end up with an agitating mind ,think about “What  I DON’T want to do now”. Might help and do wonders!

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Thank you:-)

 

 

F* DAY!

Brain: F*** off..nothing works right now! I am dead..Who drained my energy?

Heart: Just come in front of the mirror, we can sort out!You just need to see yourself with a smile and you will be back!

Brain : No..not infront of the mirror..I just feel I am ugly now!

Heart: Oh yes you are..Just because you are throwing yourself into dustbin!Stop acting like shit

Brain: What??

Heart: Sorry I shouldnt be that rude..see what I am telling you is that,You are the best! You can handle everything..I mean We can do it!

Brian: But things are not moving..I feel suffocated between these walls!

Heart :Calm down..lets go for a walk!

Brain : No..i am not in a mood..I don’t want to go!

Heart: You don’t want to walk because you know it that, when you come back everything will be sorted in your mind!

Brain:Whattt??

Heart: Yes..yes exactly dude,this is weird that you stick on to your bad mood and don’t want to change!!

Brain :No ..seriously its just that I don’t have a mood to walk..there are many problems to be solved,i don’t even know where to start,what will work out and bla blaa

Heart: What is the new one that I am not aware of?

Brain : (Digging some old list of problems from files)See..i have many. (Explaining it one by one..pumbing in  water through eyes in between. Signalling the sneeze )

Heart: I don’t know why you still keep all of them,most of it had been sorted before.You remember more about the problems and less about the solutions.

Brain : Don’t tell me about memory..You too have a special file system,which is overloaded all the time,isn’t it?

Heart: Its just the emotions..But I never complain

Brain: Because you know there is nothing you can do about it..you are weak!

Heart: Exactly there is nothing I can do about it..but that’s not because I’m weak..Its just that I am more mature enough to let things go..

Brain: So you think I don’t let things go as such.. ?

Heart: There is no point in you letting things go and falling asleep or watching TV.You have to initiate productive work..Learning..Doing..Happiness!I know its a burden ,but you always loved to do it.

Brain: I know I know..I have to do it!!But I lost the thing yaar..The purpose the passion! Its just an F day!

Heart: Its okay dude..just calm down..I know you are good at doing things!And I know you will get back things.Leave about these passions,purpose,job,friends ,family etc..I know you are getting better every single day!I know you will do things well..I  believe that you are the superman!!

Brain: really??I cross check and fight with your decisions everytime and you still have this feeling about me?

Heart :Thats what.. see..Your job is to be logically and ask the perfect questions, and you did!And I am honesty! yoo..I said the truth earlier.

Brain: I Love you..

Heart: I love you too..Lets make it better for her,She just need to sit back and start her work.You can help her better!

Brain: Yeah..I know,Now let me keep this memory in some abandoned shelf  which wont be easily available!

Heart: Does that work?She keeps triggering to deep dig the problems, and when an external signal gets in, the process will be easy!

Brain:mmh…I got it!I will better attach the “Way to solutions” along with the problem folder,That will work for sure.

Heart: Yooo…it will!Love you

Brain: Alryt,wasted a lot of time..its time to do some decent work!I have to get tea and biscuts,we all need to work late night today to compensate for the loss!

Heart :Yes boss..But before you go,please do come in front of the mirror..I just missed her smile for a long!

Brain:Triggering…:-)

 

 

 

 

Cake Cutting!!

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I never go to meet my lil nephew with out pastries. Three cake pieces was his usual quota. One day I landed at Mango Bakers on my way to meet Sid, uunfortunately they had ran out of pastries in pieces and I had to buy a cake. Sid was very excited that day to cut the cake. He made it into beautiful pieces all by himself and had a good time eating some of them.

I asked lil Sid “Was that a good one?? Enjoying his choclate flakes he replied “Yeah ..in Tonnes. We should often cut cakes likes this and never wait for my bday to make it grand.I feel very happy and excited about cutting this cake” I nodded agreeing to him. What is there in a cake cutting??

I tried to  recollect the last time when I cut the cake  other than for birthday or at a success party but couldn’t remember any. I knew,Its high time I start cutting cakes of happiness!

When my sister came in later ,she was surprised to see the cake on the table, While a grabbing a small piece she asked “What is  the cake for? What is special?”

This Life.. is indeed Special:-)

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From falling to flying…Indomitable Spirit!

Do you know how you manage to be happy after a blow?

((Blow.. of any kind,any intensity!and yes ofcourse your problem is the biggest one for you..and mine is the biggest one for me..no fight in that matter,dont even try to compare:-))

We all at some point of life fall on ground and test the soil.I use to go a lil further digging holes in ground,burying myself and cursing the planet. Thanks to the spontaneity of life that things get faded out and other day you are up and flying in the sky!

((For those who have never flew in your life,you shouldn’t be here reading this,its high time you join some flying coaching centers..you have pretty much these days! I guess in future the only thing the AI can’t do effectively will be helping humans fly.There are data scientist who believe their machine learning algorithms will even make that happen..anyway I hate that idea right now))

Anyway I was into discussing this because I always felt that it is the good people around that helps us when we are down, but that thought was in trouble after talking to Sid last day.

((Sid is my foster kid-nephew ,from whom I extract beautiful lessons of life. Indirectly he is helping me in my development rather than the other way round ))

I came to know from my sister that he fractured his leg during a football practice session and is very upset about missing a school match. She grumbled about how he misbehaved for missing the match. When I paid a visit, he was getting back on his legs but was still under house arrest. He pleaded me to take him to the ground to watch his team mates practice and I did .As we were driving to the playground few kilometers away I asked him why he shouted at home and protested for missing the match, which in no way was their fault. Not very surprised by the question he looked at me,smiled and then said “They don’t understand.It was a critical match for me and they took it very silly  when I cried, I was frustrated but not for very long.When I was lying down desperately I could see pictures of me flying with the ball. I felt bad for shouting” Patting his leg he continued “Once I am okay to play,i will take more practise sessions on ground” he sounded energetic and confident while saying that. “That’s my champ” I replied with a smile. We spent that evening in the ground watching others play for a long time before heading to home.

After that I was particularly thinking about the “flying with the ball ” images Sid saw when he was lying on the bed. Was his soul speaking to him and did that happened because he worshipped football.He picked himself up when he fell and that is beautiful, we all do that knowingly or unknowingly!

I never thought about this ” I am solely responsible for repairing my life” before. But yes, now i agree to it!Having good people around only helps us to have a peaceful space so that we can listen to the indomitable spirit that sings from  inside. And all we can do is to feed ourselves with love for life, for our passions,  for the small world and moreover for ourselves to keep our spirit up. Once done is enough, the indomitable spirit from within will keep singing for the rest of your life.

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I have seen you fly ..Magnificently… many times!

Fluttering and reaching out to the sky with much easiness,

Liberating eternal power from within as you glide through,

Finding solace for lifting yourself up & winning back your happiness,

I have seen you fly..Magnificently..many time!!

-Your Indomitable Spirit

Think about the last time when you managed a blow??Well… does that really matter to go back and check?Oh yes..i think!When you know whom to ask for help,you need not be lying on the ground for a long!Give credits to yourself, because you picked yourself up always and say thank you to the good people who were around you who believed that you can!!

Be Your Own Savior!

 

 

 

 

3rd encounter with WordPress!!Here I am..This is me!!

So as the headline ran,this is the 3rd time I am writing  “my first post”. If WordPress could ever talk and recognise me here, it might have poked fun at me for my previous works! Haa..Thanks to my lack of dedication and procrastinating genes! sad:-(

well..about my old blogs,I don’t even remember the site names I initially used! As u can guess after  2-3 posts they went into oblivion!I started the first blog when I moved to a new city for my first job after graduation..there was excitement to meet new people,visit new places and to explore another dimension of being myself-“financially independent and away from home”.Even today I think of those days with a great sense of satisfaction for all the learning experiences I had. But I forgot about the blog in between!

The next time the attempt was to share my ideas and thoughts,stories about the people ,the good and the bad.Which eventually got cancelled when I found I was always the hero in my stories!!Even I was bored! later on I tried getting into everyone’s shoes to understand the epics better and by the time blog was buried!

Anyway now after a long time I am here again!!There are many reasons to start a blog  and adding to the fun, i have signed a secret contract with my friend about writing a blog!

I am here to stay for a while..